Shlomo was one of a kind. I can't find the words to
explain how much he meant to me.
He was my mentor from the very start of my academic
life.
He taught the most interesting class I took in the BA, which
made me fall in love with the field of Neuropsychology, and join his lab as a
research assistant. From then on, I never left. I had the privilege of working
with Shlomo as lab manager, and under his guidance throughout my MA and PhD
studies.
I remember the first time I saw him come into the lab
with a new poster for a coming conference, probably one of hundreds he had
presented already. I remember thinking that I would never be so passionate
about my first poster, as he was about any one of his. I would keep being
astonished from his enthusiasm from every new project, new experiment, new
results, new ideas. And he was full of new ideas.
Shlomo's passion for science was contagious. He worked
day and night, and those who worked with him closely knew that the best time to
catch a good quiet talk with him was probably 2 am. This also meant you could
get 'urgent' phone calls from him, about a tough paragraph or about new
results, at any time of the day and every day of the week. But I had no problem
continuing getting these urgent calls from him 24/7 all my life.
Shlomo
taught his students to always doubt him and others, to argue but also to listen
and respect, to be open to alternative explanations, to keep looking for
answers but mostly to ask more questions.
Working in Shlomo's lab meant joining a big family – Shlomo
truly cared about his students, their wellbeing, their academic and personal
lives. Shlomo was the first and one of
the few who insisted his office should be inside the lab, so he would always be
a part of what was going on. Entering the lab you would encounter scientific
discussions mixed with personal stories, political arguments, frustrations and celebrations.
Throughout the years Shlomo became much more than an
academic mentor to me. We shared stories
about our lives and families, our frustrations from Israeli politics and our
thoughts about the future. We argued and laughed a lot. He knew when I was
going through tough times, and would find the kind words to comfort or help me.
I loved and valued how Shlomo never hid his thoughts and feelings, and made
sure to tell me exactly what he thought about my personal decisions – whether
in future career dilemmas, in clinical practice, or in choosing my partner
(luckily, on that we agreed… :) ).
Of course, working together did not end when leaving
the lab. I always enjoyed coming to work at Shlomo's house, joining him and
Miri for coffee, sometimes accompanied by their children or grandchildren.
Shlomo and Miri's house was so welcoming and warm, and I had plans to keep my
visits there long after my PhD was over.
Shlomo was one of a kind.
I will miss him as a teacher, a mentor and a friend.
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